A man has no need to “trick” a woman into sleeping with him… we want it… especially with someone who has value. A man has to find his value from within because the outer world surely isn’t in a rush to give it to him.
I would also add that a lot of women want to be “led” to the bedroom. Since most of us grew up with parents, teachers, and societal pressure to be a “lady”, “keep your legs closed”, and worry about your “reputation”, it’s tough for some to drop that programming and admit that we desire sex.
When a man can successfully lead us through the physical escalation of the relationship, and we feel attracted and comfortable (because he is attractive and comfortable with himself), there’s no stopping that sexual side from coming out.
Random thought:
Soccer players are my favorite body type to look at (YUM!)… I’d rather be underneath a football player though.
